Relationships

So I had this epiphany yesterday partly because of what I'm going through and partly because of what some of my friends are going through.


Boys are so slow when it comes to comprehending and figuring out when a girl is or isn't interested. Just take a hint and do something about it! If you never take a risk you might be missing out on the best thing that could have ever happend to you. Or for some of you, I'm telling you right now you already HAVE missed out. I really don't understand how someone could care so much about another person and get screwed over so bad, I guess it's just how life is and we all have to deal with it sooner or later some more than others. Why else are we on this earth if it isn't to meet that special someone and eventually start a family? Think about it when girls get together what do they talk about... Boys and Sex.... when guys get together what do they talk about... Girls and Sex. Simply put that is just how it is and we all know it.So my question is why is it so hard to take a risk and start a relationship? Why is it so hard to open up and let someone else in and truly and honestly CARE about them when you know its exactally what you want?

On another note, I hate when people rush into a relationship and skip the dating stages it ends up creating more problems later on. Whatever happend to the flirtyness and butterflies and giddyness and getting to know the querks and perks and loves/hates likes/dislikes. Random crazy off the wall spontaneous dates and long conversations into the WEE hours of the morning about absolutely nothing but everything all at the same time. What happend to long walks, wish making, chatting about hopes and dreams, whsipering sweet nothings into eachothers ears? What happend to long passionate kisses instead of make out sessions and piggyback rides instead of dick rides? What happend to the love, and why does it seem that every man out there only desires lust? Relationships only work when the feelings are mutual.I just wish people whole hearted CARED more and sacrificed even just an incling of their own selfish desires. You only get out of a relationship what you put in. So start putting more into it!